What Is Negging?

What Is Negging?

Negging is a form of emotional manipulation in which someone repeatedly puts someone down to undermine their confidence and make them more vulnerable. It can come from anyone such as an intimate partner, a family member, a boss, or a friend. Oftentimes, these put downs are in the form of back-handed compliments, but they can…

Does Intent Matter When It Comes To Sexual Violence?

Does Intent Matter When It Comes To Sexual Violence?

Intent doesn’t matter when it comes to sexual violence.  Sexual violence isn’t always calculated It is a common misconception that sexual violence is calculated and that perpetrators are intending commit acts of violence. While this can be the case, perpetrators often, consciously or not, create an environment where their abuse will be tolerated, overlooked, or…

What is a Rape Apologist?

What is a Rape Apologist?

“Rape Apologist” is an umbrella term for someone who for someone who blames survivors, has a general disbelief in allegations of assault, and participates in the normalization of sexual violence. They can be any person of any gender identity, sexuality, race, ethnicity, or age. While the term make evoke an image of a particular group…

What is Sexual Coercion?

What is Sexual Coercion?

Sexual coercion is the act of using pressure, threats, alcohol or drugs, or force to engage in sexual activity with someone.  This type of abuse can take form in many different ways. Contrary to popular belief, coercion is mostly verbal and emotional, not physical. The tactics the abuser uses can make someone feel pressure, guilt…